difficult short story about being depressed before Pregnancy

Depression can be described as feeling sad, blue, unhappy, or miserable. Most of us feel this way at one time or another for short periods. True clinical depression is a mood disorder in which feelings of sadness, loss, anger, or frustration interfere with everyday life for an extended time.

Researchers believe that depression is one of the most common complications during and after pregnancy. Often the depression is not recognized or treated because some normal pregnancy changes cause similar symptoms and are happening at the same time. Tiredness, problems sleeping, stronger emotional reactions and changes in body weight may occur during pregnancy and after pregnancy.

There may be a number of reasons why a woman gets depressed. Hormone changes or a stressful life event, such as a death in the family, can cause chemical changes in the brain that lead to depression. Depression is also an illness that runs in some families. During pregnancy, these factors may increase a woman’s chance of depression: history of depression or substance abuse; family history of mental illness; little support from family and friends; marital or financial problems; young age (of mother).

The amount of two female hormones, estrogen and progesterone, in a woman’s body increases greatly during pregnancy. In the first 24 hours after childbirth, the amount of these hormones rapidly drops back down to their normal non-pregnant levels. Researchers think the fast change in hormone levels may lead to depression, just as smaller changes in hormones can affect a woman’s mood before she gets her menstrual period.

Levels of thyroid hormones may also drop after giving birth. Low thyroid levels can cause symptoms of depression including depressed mood, decreased interest in things, fatigue, difficulty concentrating, sleep problems, and weight gain. A simple blood test can tell if this condition is causing a woman’s depression.

Any of these symptoms that last longer than two weeks are a sign of depression: feeling restless or irritable; feeling sad and overwhelmed; crying a lot; eating too little or too much; sleeping too little or too much; trouble focusing; feeling worthless or guilty; withdrawing from family and friends.

Women should speak to their doctor or midwife if they are having symptoms of depression while they are pregnant or after they deliver their baby.

Some other helpful tips to share with pregnant women and new moms are:

Try to get as much rest as you can. Nap when the baby naps.

Stop putting pressure on yourself to do everything. Ask for help with household chores and nighttime feedings.

Talk to your husband, partner, family, and friends about how you are feeling.

Don’t spend a lot of time alone. Get dressed and leave the house. Take a short walk.

Talk with other mothers, so you learn from their experiences